it was astonishing to find stories of individuals who all of a sudden just appeared in our lives.. we dare to listen and sometimes just plain curious and naive on whats to come.. we are all diffrent in meaningful ways.. each of us has that story that hasnt been told yet.. or its halfway there.. have you ever known someone who has not told a story? i havent..  it is as usual as breathing. the varieties though.. thats a diffrent story.. some have triumph,some have faith and some has lost and the ever exciting love affairs.. we are all living... but some of us just cant be satisfied by that.. they need to be on the edge.. they need the rush.. the feel of  being diffrent.. we all want to be diffrent.. but not all of us has the drive to achieved it. One of my old friend said " Life is what you want it to be. you are the only one who can decide what the outcome will be".